Meditate on what it is you are trying to reveal to yourself. When you have never loved yourself or you have stopped loving yourself, you are caught in a trap of negative emotions that bar you from revealing your authentic self. By meditating, you are opening the channels to the Universal flow of energy. After you open this energetic flow, you are empowering yourself with a brilliant source of renewable vigor that keeps your mind sharp, your senses heightened, and your heart open to the infinite bounty that awaits you.

An effective mantra is always a good mental tool to employ as well. For example, I might begin with something like, “I love my mind, body and spirit. And because I am in tune with the Universal flow of energy, all things are possible.”  Say this mantra slowly and a few times daily. Just saying it once has a profound effect on your mentality, your spirituality, and your physical wellbeing. You can choose to close your eyes if you wish, but I like to focus on something in nature like a bird, a tree, a flower, or a favorite image. If you’re more daring, add a splash of your own imagination and gift of visualization — allow your mind to take you to your favorite destination: a beach, a park, a mountain, a valley, or anywhere special you might like to be.

One of the most serene images that comes to mind is an secluded beach with big sandy dunes. I can see my footprints in the sand, and I can feel the grainy crystals shifting beneath my feet. The warmth of the summer breeze is whipping around my shoulders, and in the distance I can hear the soothing sounds of the surf and the cooing of seagulls up above. You see, it doesn’t take much to paint a picture in your mind; and the more you practice meditating, repeating mantras, and visualizing the calm and beautiful wonders of your mind, the more susceptible you are to opening your heart to the blessings that are yours for the asking.

If nothing else works, listen to music that inspires you and lightens the load you’ve been carrying for way too long. Let me recommend, “Let my love open the door” as a good pick-me-up song!

Until we speak again, I am

Joan Marie, your Intuition Girl

Its all such different styles. I can go out with a guy and not give a crap. But once i start listening to thier songs, i fall madly head over heels and think about them ALL the time afterwards.

WHY???

All men are drawn to women who have a specific quality. If you want to make him crazy about you, consider the fact that men love someone who is authentic. Men are so accustomed to interacting with women who put on a false front. It’s something most of us have been guilty of at some point. We meet a man and in an effort to get him to fall in love with us we transform into the woman we believe he wants, instead of staying true to ourselves. It’s easy to fall into this trap but it’s never going to result in you having a fulfilling, honest and open relationship with a man. Let him see the real you right from the start. Show him that you love yourself including all your flaws. He’ll be captivated by you.

Holding back just a bit is another great way to appeal directly to a man’s heart. As women, we love when a man pours his heart out to us and so we tend to do the same thing with our guy. Men are much more interested if you play a little hard to get. Don’t always be available to him and make him work a bit to gain your attention. He’ll crave the challenge and it will keep him pursuing you until he suddenly finds he’s fallen in love.

I feel wasted and I know I can’t do anything about that, but I can something about how I feel. How to get this feeling away?

Please help me I feel trapped and lonely.

Do you believe in love and marriage? What are your opinions? Whats the point of marriage? Love doesn’t exist, right?