Posts Tagged ‘Friends’

Is it possible for a girl & a boy to be friends without love trapping them?

Saturday, September 4th, 2010

Meaning that they would care, admire, respect and help one another only under the umbrella of friendship or it would be only phase to transfer them to love later on?

How to Keep Him in Love With You – Steps to Make Your Boyfriend Love You More

Thursday, August 26th, 2010

The question of how to keep him in love with you is one that many women have wondered about in relation to their boyfriend. Unfortunately men aren’t always as emotionally invested in the relationship as we are. You may find that you are often silently questioning just how devoted he is to you. If you’ve been feeling that way, your initial reaction may be to try and get him to talk about what he’s feeling and what you can do to make him love you more than does. In most cases this approach just isn’t going to get you the results you want which is a more devoted, committed boyfriend. There are things you can do though that will draw him closer and make him fall even deeper in love than he already is.

If you want to know how to keep him in love with you first consider how you make him feel about himself. Men are much more likely to stay in love with women who make them feel like better men. If you’ve fallen into the trap of trying to change who he is or suggest ways he can improve his life, that’s most likely coming across as nagging or criticism to him. Instead, focus on something about him that you absolutely adore. Make certain he knows how much you love that quality about him and how much you appreciate what he brings to your life. Let him help you with things and ask him to do specific things for you. Men want to feel like the knight in shining armor for the woman in their lives. Treat him this way and he’ll definitely stay hooked.

Another thing to consider when you are thinking about how to keep him in love with you is to ensure you keep your own interests alive. Many women make the crucial mistake of giving up aspects of their life for the man they are involved with. This typically includes things like spending less time with other friends and letting hobbies or career aspirations fall by the wayside. Virtually all men want to be with women who have interesting and dynamic lives outside the relationship. Ensure that you don’t give up everything just to be with him. It will come back to bite you when he decides that the relationship isn’t as fulfilling as he’d like.

Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back For Good – How To Attract Him And Make Him Love You Again

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

After a breakup, most women realize that to win him back for good and make him love you again, they first have to attract their ex boyfriend again. You might not have known how much you loved him until after he was gone. But, once you are in this position, you are willing to do almost anything to make him notice you again. The good news is, by taking the right actions you can have him more in love with you than before.  

To get your ex back, you will need to go back to the beginning, when you first met and started dating. There were certain qualities you had that were an attraction to him. Perhaps the reason for the breakup could be that your ex became disillusioned by the way you had changed. In his minds eye he kept seeing the woman he fell in love with. The problem is that he now feels as if he were with a different woman. This is not wholly your fault, because we all change over time. If you want to attract him and make him love you again, you will have to get back to being the woman he fell in love with as close as possible.

It is easy to become too comfortable in a relationship, especially one that seems to be smooth. That feeling of contentment can be your worst enemy. You start taking the man you love for granted and gradually let things slip a little at a time. You might not be as concerned with your appearance as you were at the beginning. Another trap you might have fallen into is becoming pushy. This happens when you get too eager to get your man to make a commitment and you scare him away. To get your ex boyfriend back for good you need to relax and be the carefree, self confident woman he first met.

To attract him and make him love you again, you have to be unavailable to him, just as you were when you first met. So, you will have to drop out of his sight for a while and let him wonder what happened to you. Then you can be seen having fun with your friends. He will hear of this and want to see for himself. When he sees the carefree, self confident woman you have returned to being, you will have learned how to attract him and make him love you again.

So why do I love my boyfriend but feel trapped in the relationship?

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

Like it’s prison and I’m in my own little cell where I can’t go out, can’t have friends, or do anything without letting him know what I’m doing. So why do I stay in this situation when it’s really just tiresome and depressing. How can I get over this so called love and let the time wasted go just let it go? And how can I love someone who makes me sad and feel trapped?