Jul
24th

Make Him Fall in Love – Go Beyond Friendship

Did you make him fall in love?  Not yet, you say?  Are you still working on it?  Have you fallen into a rut?  Are you looking for love, romance, commitment and marriage, and have only found friendship?  What can you do?  Follow our advice.  We have some time – honored tips.  These will work to make him fall in love; for sure.

You can make a guy fall in love with you and make him commit to you long term if you are the kind of woman he is looking for.  So you need to zero in on male psychology.  You need to find out, not what will attract men, but what will be the attraction that will win the love of this one man, Mr. Right, your soul mate?

2        Good dating advice will tell you that if you want to make him fall in love with you, first you have to find out who he is.  That does not mean name, address and marital status.  It means, what does he like?  What does he dislike?  What is he looking for in a woman?  Can you be those things?

So, here is what you do.  Talk to him.  Whenever you are together, ask him viewpoint questions.  Do not criticize the answers.  You are trying to find out who he is, not tell him who to be.

3        Suppose you find out he likes blondes?  Then what?  Can you be a blonde?  Can you lighten your hair a little to make yourself a little more attractive to him?  If he prefers black hair, could you dye your hair or at least color it a little?

A word of caution is in order here.  Do not do this unless you plan to continue it the rest of your life.  To change something about yourself just to trap him into a relationship and then let your true self emerge is fraud.  This is what people complain about when they say that women (or men) play games.  Be ready to make small changes, but make those changes permanent and be true to yourself.

If you really want to make him fall in love, try to like the things he likes.  Try to enjoy the things that he enjoys.  Pay attention to him and make him feel important.  But remember that this is your relationship, too.  Do not be a door mat; a door mat will be used but not loved.  So, do not lose your respect.  Try to find a balance between what he likes and what you like.

Remember that you are worth his time.  Be dignified and do not throw yourself at him.  Do not lose your sense of who you are.

Try this advice.   It really works.  Find out who he is and what he wants.  Make small changes in yourself to make yourself more attractive to him.  This can help you to make him fall in love with you.

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